When guys groom his baby.

Do you notice what is wrong in this photo. Maybe you do and maybe don't. I didn't notice at first, from the moment i hold him at the house and in the car. I started noticed it when i were at Johnnys having my lunch meals. Pity little Luffy, pakai baju terbalik. No wonder he cried when hubby put on his clothes. After eating, we headed to changing room to rectify this. B-)

Family Issue

I read on the news, lately there are too many cases of marriage issue eg. betrayal, affairs, separation and divorce. Not only on the news, had this issue also happened to many people around me, friends and relatives. I remember during my wedding solemnization, both husband of wife agreed to “sehidup semati”, and I believe other married people made that agreement as well. What happened???

Few reasons that I always heard contribute to this, but I think the correct answer is due to commitment. People leaving their marriage or starts involve in an affair because either fade-up with commitment or want to run away from commitment. Why husband starts to seek other women?? Because fade-up on commitment being a loyal husband and loving father. Commitments to provide money for family’s endless need. Same goes to women, house-chores and kids seems as heavy burden. They do not want to be tangled in those commitment’s spider webs and prefer to run away from all those commitments.

Don’t misunderstand me or think that I looked down or feel hostile of those people which are having family issues. This might happened to anybody including me. We are typical human being which sometimes weak and looked for better option in life. “Life is about making an improvement!!”.

Luffy's Progress

Luffy is 4 month 4 weeks. Next week hubby and I will go for his 5 months check up and looks like he is going to get his jab this time. For this month, here are Luffy’s achievements and progress so far..

1)He can roll-over from both sides; left and right and sometime he can make few roll-over. Now I cannot put him on the bed unattended. Putting him on his comfortable also is a bad idea; his comforter is small, and thick. When he rolled over sometime he knocked his head on the floor. So I have to use my own comforter. Even with my own comforter, sometime he can go beyond it, so I have to check him regularly.

He need bigger space to play now

2)He starts teething already. He likes to chew his toy, even his bottle teat; after he’s satisfied he will chew the teat. I got him a few theeter, but he seems to chew all his toys including the hard one.

The rattle teether sure looks tasty

3)He likes to speak with only his understood language. Sometimes the pitch is soft, normal and loud. After he came back from day care center, I let him played on his own. While I busy cooking, I can hear his loud pitch from the kitchen, making my house so lively.

4)He giggle and laugh on when we raspberry him especially on his tummy and underarm. He favors few words like ‘gaga’, ‘cak’ , Aboo, hubby noticed this because when he utter those words, Luffy smiles and laughed.

5)He is a good listener. He lay quietly on my lap when I read him story or sing nursery song to him.

6)He can’t sit or behave properly during bath time. He will turn here and there when I apply bath lotion and shampoo or when put in his bath tub.

7)He cannot sit on the bouncer unattended. He’s too hyperactive and I’m afraid he might fell off the bouncer.

8)He drinks a lot lately. But hubby and I still decide to introduce solid to him at 6 months. So we have to endure waking up at night few times to feed him. Last month check-up his weight was 6.8 kg and the graph shows he is on the good track.

p/s These are the progress that I can remember at this time, I will add more if I can recalled :D

“What would you do if you can rewind your life path 10 years back?”

“What would you do if you can rewind your life path 10 years back?” This is the frequent question that we always hear or ask ourselves. Normally, we would think on the mistake that we have done in the past, things that we should have done, question of what I would become now if I were to do this last time and so many presumption and prediction.

As for me, the biggest mistake of the Past was I got carried away after being cheated with my ex-boyfriend, the things I should have done is to concentrate more on my study and at the same time enjoy my life as it no boundaries. I think being shied, afraid to take the risk and inferior of others are my traits which pulled me down from achieving my dream. I should've become ****** if I were to get rid of all those traits.

Actually we shouldn’t think that way. What ever in the past is History, what is more important is current and Future. If Current is good, InsyaAllah, future will be good. Let the PAST be a STORY to us and let us create a good STORY from now on.

Well, I happened to ask my hubby during lunch break about this question. According to him, there is nothing wrong about his past. The Past made him as what he is right now, and he believes everything happened for a reason. And when I brought up the issue on my ex-bf, suddenly he said, “Yeah… I think I regret of wasting my time with her!” . But…but..but.. “Dah takde jodoh!”. Hehehe, I do agree with him.. Everything happened for a reason, and Allah knows what the BEST for us.

Family visit in Penang

We had a long weekend last week for Deepavali holiday. Hubby was away from his hometown for almost 7 months and I think he is kind of homesick. So he decided to go back Melaka during this long weekend. Since Luffy is still small, we think it is not good for him to go for a long journey trip, so we postponed the family trip to Melaka. Initially I planned to drive back to my hometown with little Luffy, but my mum doesn’t like that idea. She thinks sitting too long with car seat will get Luffy fatigue. Instead she offered to travel to Penang. For this trip, my sister and her friend, Ikin accompanied my mum. My brother family joined the crew later.

This is Ikin’s first time in Penang, so I planned to take her to a few places in Penang. Actually me myself is also excited nak jalan2. Hehe.. So I took them to Bukit Bendera. This time the crowd was less and we don’t have to wait long waiting for the tram. Why? Oh why? Actually the trip is only until the mid-way, not to the top. Apparently there is some reconstruction happened at the top, so for now they are closing. Luffy behaves so well during the trip, he falled asleep in the tram and all the way up. When we reached down, he poo-poo. Below are some of the pictures taken.

Etet and Luffy; waiting for the tram

Inside the tram, pack like sardine

View of Penang island, from mid way to Bukit Bendera


We went to Batu Feringghi as well, too bad no photos were taken. I managed to get few CD from the bazaar market. The next day we went to Botanical Garden, to show my niece and nephew monkeys. Rush2, pictures tell the stories..

Hannis followed her father and brother, nice scenery right??

Waterfall, can come for picnic, just watch out for the nasty beast, Hehehe


This is the nasty Beast, there are too many of them.